So you’re a Dadpreneur? Nah – I didn’t think so.
If one more person congratulates me on being “Mumpreneur” I think I am going to lose the plot.
No I am not being ungrateful, but I find the term “Mumpreneur” a bit sexist and a bit derogatory. I mean my husband (love him to bits) runs his own success business – he juggles work, family and training for a marathon and do you think the term “Dadpreneur” is mentioned to him once? Do you think anyone questions his commitment, his work ethic, his business skills/ability or the seriousness of his venture?
Well I can tell you right now the answer is NO. Not once in the past 4 years. In fact he gets called dedicated, motivated, career orientated, a family man, organised and efficient to possibly fit all of his roles into his life. He gets congratulated.
Then – in comes me. A woman who runs her own business who also happens to be a mother to two children (whom I love more than anyone will ever know – just saying). But because I am a mum, people feel sorry for me for “having” to work, my business is suddenly assumed to be a hobby and not a serious career, I get told what a shame I can’t have a career and a family, and suddenly I am pigeon-holed as “Mumpreneur”.
Well here’s the truth. I love to work. I have worked my whole life and having children was never going to stop that fire in me. Sure – I took maternity leave – but come 10 months in, I was itching to get back to what I know best – and that is numbers. I run a successful Financial Coaching, Management Accounting & Bookkeeping business around hours that I choose and clients that I love. I have a family life and business life that I am proud of. Being a mum has nothing to do with the 7 years of study to gain my university accounting degree and post graduate Chartered Accountant & BAS Agent qualifications.
Being a mum doesn’t stop me from learning and gaining new skills – but now I think outside the box to get this done.
I attend webinars online, I do training sessions in my lunch break, I work weekends (yes I choose this option and it doesn’t bother me in the slightest as it means I can work flexible hours on week days), I utilse after school club for my eldest child – and I do not feel guilty about it. I am living the life I want and we (as a husband and wife team) are building the life we want for our family.
I think in this day and age we need to get past the barrier of age, sex, family situation, personal life situation and focus on the main things – are you running a successful business and do I want to work with you?
You as a person, as a qualified and capable business owner, as someone with skills and knowledge that I need? Those are the questions that should be asked. Not how many children I have. I will be eliminating the word Mumpreneur from my vocab – how about you ?
Stacey Price is a Chartered Accountant, BAS Agent and self confessed numbers geek. Founder of Healthy Business Finances – wanting to share her love of numbers with anyone who will listen.